Well, now I guess I use them more as a ranting/venting platform with a little insight thrown in.
I've been thinking a lot of lately, of just being me, like I spoke about the last time. I kind of realized that I have no patience or time for things or people that do not make me happy. I have zero time to tend to people who add nothing but stress or anxiety to my life.
I realized this as I was looking through all my social media and was annoyed by a lot of what I saw. You know how some people just get under your skin and you step back and ask yourself why you're still following them?
That's what happened... and I went on an unfollowing spree. It felt good, therapeutic almost. I was following people that I felt I needed to follow, because it's a courtesy, because at one point we were friends. Well now I don't know anything about you so bye bye!
Why do we still follow people on social media that add nothing to our lives?
It got me thinking further...
Why do we keep people in our lives that just add stress & anxiety? If you're not gaining anything from the friendship or relationship, why are you bothering to keep it afloat?
I don't think I have too many people like that in my life, but there are a few and maybe it doesn't have to be a permanent break. Maybe it's just a break for a few days to get your mind settled, maybe it's a week because you just need some space.
Either way, we need to take more time for ourselves to make us happy & do what we want, instead of what you feel like you need to do.
If you can't deal with a text message right now, don't reply immediately. Let it sit there. People do it to you.
Now, I don't mean start being an asshole to all your friends, but realize what you need & what makes you happy for once.
I'm the type of person who really thinks about other people's feelings before my own so if someone is annoying me, I won't stay away because I'm afraid of confrontation or I feel bad not answering the person. I'm a people pleaser by heart.
Lately though, I've been trying to put that on hold and realize what makes me happy and what annoys me... and trying to stay away from the annoyances in order to keep my happiness afloat.
Does anyone else feel this way or am I just a bitch?
Let's end things on a positive note: